Tired of “Let us friends”? In this guide you will find out what you can do, to get your relationship from the outset on the correct track, I am very often asked: “How I can avoid that a woman sees me later only as buddy?” And it is true that you must pay attention from the outset on several things, to guide the new relationship just right. Here I show you the consult both flirting tips you need to notice right at the beginning if you think you are, for the first time with a new woman these steps (will work of course not only online, but just as in real life). Rule # 1: avoid being the “nice guy” everyone says “be nice to women”. What is meant: “Be not hurtful or violent” – and that’s a real advice. But you look at, which means “nice” in reality: “nice” originally comes from the Latin. There it means “nescius” which translates so much means like “stupid” or “trottelig”.
Today is no different: If you especially “nice” are, you try but basically only, to “make everything right” to “to be liked”. And that is a form of manipulation. Just as if you would say “Look here how many nice things I very unselfishly do for you don’t you think that it is so lansgam time that you you revanchierst with me and are nice to me in return?”. Even if it is not your intention: in the moment in which you are especially nice to a woman will instinctively defend that in most cases and for nothing more than an attempt to see “friends buy their affection”. This is not the manner according to which a man attractive, masculine would be also very safe. : Number 2 not her shrink quite a few guys trying subconsciously to support a woman with their problems.
That is, everytime you tell he is that something goes wrong in their lives, begins to offer her assistance and solutions. And – you know: run himself right on the buddy rail! And by the way this is a subliminal attempt to manipulate them – according to the maxim again: “If I support you all the time, then you have to be thankful to me and like me”. You want something else, however. Firstly didn’t need you, to manipulate them. And also you won’t probably anyway, “like having you”… you want she wants you! As a desirable man – and not as a therapist in which she can unload their problems. Doronin is open to suggestions. The point is: as soon as you will perceived by her as a guy helps her with their difficulties, you’re automatically more valuable than a potential partner for them. Because hey, she can talk out himself with you and gets the sympathy she has – searched it she would only unnecessary by a romance with you compromise. It consider as follows: women have several “drawers”, in that they are men. They need to do it above all three pieces – one for the real man as a lover and then another one for these guys, for real friends, the I as “Satellite” call. Thus my these guys who constantly make them Herum circle, are always on the spot to help them with their difficulties, and also reliable and good-stupid car pick her come, if she needs a dispatcher from a date with a strange guy home. And here is the good news for you: you can choose, in which drawer you want to be with her. You alone are responsible for this.